tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post974842989322694027..comments2023-06-12T16:34:46.043+01:00Comments on My Spare Thoughts: Recaps: My biggest regretSpare Thoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00171269015090983067noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-57936701987979540942010-08-23T20:40:14.347+01:002010-08-23T20:40:14.347+01:00Oh gosh, so sorry you had a rubbish night (but gla...Oh gosh, so sorry you had a rubbish night (but glad you felt better eventually!). <br /><br />Very good advice. IB is traditional so he wants the night apart thing. I'm still debating whether to make my sisters boyfriend sleep on the couch so I can share a bed with her and not be alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-78010374551507860452010-08-13T19:10:20.983+01:002010-08-13T19:10:20.983+01:00Yay! Well, not yay for what you went through in yo...Yay! Well, not yay for what you went through in your sleepless night but yay in that this is what I've been thinking – that I really don't want to do the separate night thing. I think the OH could be easily persuaded as he says he always he sleeps badly when I'm away (it's me that's usually away). Thanks (as always) for the brill advice (as always)!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-62367383425681064042010-08-12T21:57:04.653+01:002010-08-12T21:57:04.653+01:00I can understand how this would be no fun and thin...I can understand how this would be no fun and think it's one of those things which each couple has to decide on. But I loved not spending the night together and the excitement I had to see him. Plus the getting ready would have been a real pain in our tiny flat if he was around too...Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06034963362014160492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-51183123329514651862010-08-12T19:40:32.941+01:002010-08-12T19:40:32.941+01:00Oh gosh now I don't know what to do. Many thin...Oh gosh now I don't know what to do. Many thinks, me thinks!anna and the ringhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061035220548972874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-22382495293100714822010-08-12T11:12:06.973+01:002010-08-12T11:12:06.973+01:00Even though I always bang on about how you don'...Even though I always bang on about how you don't have to follow traditions even I always assume the couple will spend the night before apart. But after reading your post and imagining myself in the same situation it seems I may have to evaluate. Or at least, as you say, if you're going to be apart you shouldn't be in a strange bed, but in familiar surroundings. I'd probably have brought a teddy bear or two with me :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14092861590215247818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-68688191120657402032010-08-11T23:53:47.995+01:002010-08-11T23:53:47.995+01:00Aw sorry you didnt have a good night. Im still gla...Aw sorry you didnt have a good night. Im still glad we spent the night apart, wouldnt have felt right for me any other way; but then I did end up sharing a room with 3 of my bridesmaids at my mums so was hardly on my own!Gaynor {Our Day by Design}https://www.blogger.com/profile/12605696789497309197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-3540682114729032982010-08-11T08:25:05.923+01:002010-08-11T08:25:05.923+01:00Regrets are the worst! At least you get to spend a...Regrets are the worst! At least you get to spend all the rest of the nights together now xMrs Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03367631935043016430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-90329778542344126402010-08-11T03:17:46.367+01:002010-08-11T03:17:46.367+01:00this made me a little weepy! so sweet :)this made me a little weepy! so sweet :)Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16968993895571206033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-86603116964854470272010-08-11T01:19:36.875+01:002010-08-11T01:19:36.875+01:00Awwwww :)
I think now that it would add to the ex...Awwwww :)<br /><br />I think now that it would add to the excitement so I'd rather stay apart. But luckily, if I change my mind he's in the same resort :)Miss Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11831964957323606168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-67707232194315981782010-08-10T23:11:55.570+01:002010-08-10T23:11:55.570+01:00That's exactly how i felt. I kept thinking, we...That's exactly how i felt. I kept thinking, we've been living together for two years, why am i sleeping on my own?!Lisa-Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11135752484387782593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-10994245684726120322010-08-10T23:02:14.591+01:002010-08-10T23:02:14.591+01:00Awww such a bittersweet post!Awww such a bittersweet post!Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01357677266168771468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-47635628688332038872010-08-10T22:59:07.225+01:002010-08-10T22:59:07.225+01:00I slept with mine the night before and I think it ...I slept with mine the night before and I think it was one of the best decisions. We also drove the 1/2 hour to the ceremony together and then got dressed after we arrived.Meghanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03766560743164059542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-88834606931106945612010-08-10T22:43:49.331+01:002010-08-10T22:43:49.331+01:00Seconded- it might have prevnted 2 of the three ha...Seconded- it might have prevnted 2 of the three hangovers at the top of the aisle. Me, hubby & minister!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-727245719648461757.post-61028741503772084662010-08-10T20:56:19.048+01:002010-08-10T20:56:19.048+01:00aaaaw, you big soppy thing, I feel exaxctly the sa...aaaaw, you big soppy thing, I feel exaxctly the same but know my mum will go ape if I do!Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14720506501155178755noreply@blogger.com