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So I promised that I would do an update on #2 after her fall. Shortly after I first posted about her fall, #2 went to the doctor and was signed off work until January. During the last 3 months, #2 has slowly started to recover.
She had train track braces put on to bring her jaw back into alignment ensuring that she could bite correctly. She had root canal on her front three teeth as the nerves in them have died. Her broken teeth have been repaired so that her smile is normal - she isn't completely happy with it but has spent so much time in the dentist's chair that she can't bear to go back yet.
The stimulus overload took a long time to get past but she was eventually able to go out alone. As she explained when you walk down a busy high-street there is so much going on. Traffic, weather, music from shops, and hundreds of fellow shoppers having hundreds of different conversations. When feeling 'normal' you filter all of this out, you focus on the shop you are trying to reach, sometimes tuning into a particularly interesting conversation or piece of gossip. #2 couldn't filter any of it, she experienced all of it bombarding all of her senses. Slowly she has been more and more able to filter to the point where she can now drive on her on - you need to be able to filter and focus all at the same time when driving.
Her work were incredibly good as part of their health benefits she was entitled to a counselling service which meant she had someone to talk through her issues and frustrations with - who wasn't one of the family. She began on a very slow staggered return to work, luckily she is able to work from home. She started doing an hour or so at home to spending some time in the office to spending full days at the office.
She never did receive a report from the police about what happened the day of the accident. Simply a letter that there would be no legal proceedings as a result of the accident.
When we visited at New Year you could tell that she was on the mend. However a couple of weeks ago we got emailed a photo from #2's boyfriend which was her on a bike ride! The first time she had been back on a bike since her accident and a sure sign that she is fixed!
So glad she is well on the path to recovery xxx
ReplyDeleteGood to hear that mending is happening slowly, but surely.
ReplyDeleteOh gosh, she really has been through it. I am so happy she is almost all better.
ReplyDeleteOh thats so good to hear, I have dealt with the unable to filter and therefore not be able to go out and it is the worst thing.
ReplyDeleteLove to you your family but mostly your sister
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So pleased #2 is recovering well. Must be a huge relief to her and all the family. Hope she continues to keep going from strength to strength (sounds like she will, she sounds like a tough cookie!)
ReplyDeleteSo, so glad she's doing this well! That's fantastic! I hope she keeps making progress. It's great she has such a wonderful support system. xoxo
ReplyDeleteSo glad she is doing well! It takes time but hopefully soon enough she'll feel 100%!
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear that she's on the mend, but no so good that the police aren't going to doing anything about it. Surely getting closure on her accident with someone getting prosecuted would help her move on. Grr, sometimes this country annoys me so much!!
ReplyDeleteI am so, so glad to here that she is back on her bike. She is clearly awesome and brave! You should push for information from the police though, you all have a right to know what happened!
ReplyDeleteSo glad to hear she has been able to get out and about on her bike again; it must have been an awful time for her. x
ReplyDeletewonderful news about #2
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Oh I am so so glad she is on the mend. That sounds so horrific about not being able to filter things out. I love that she's back on her bike... she's one v brave gal xx
ReplyDeleteSO glad she is better and nearly there.
ReplyDeleteAnd how brave to be back on a bike again! Kudos to her :)
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that is wonderful to hear that she is back on a bike! so happy for her!
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